November 7, 2007
Q:
Dear Helen,
I to am a great fan of your's. My question is this.
Will my daughter be free of this lazy, jobless man in the near future?
I personally think she stays with him out of pity and concern. I find
him weak and domineering at the same time. He has found a way to
control her.
She is educated and is still going to University.
She also works 44 hours a week! I love her very much and want the best.
I know if I step in it would tear our life apart. She may never speak
to me again. I need guidance. My Husband's health is not the best right
now. Do you see any improvement? Thank you for taking the time to read
my letter. I really need help and advice. Signed, Frustrated and
Scared.
A:
I believe your daughter feels that something is
better then nothing at all. She does love him and wether you like it or
not she is going to be with him until she sees him the way you do. If
you have said your peace, then leave it alone. Only time and Mother
Nature will do the trick here.
You have more to worry about with your husbands
health then who your daughter is with. My cards show that your husband
is going to have a continuing health issue that will plague him over a
prolonged period of time. Concentrate on helping him to get healthier,
and let God take care of your daughter. In time, both of them will work
their problems out.
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Q:
Hello there! Nice to see you are back. I hope
everything is going well with you. I have been separated one year now
from my Common-law. Do you see a relationship coming my way soon, or
will remain alone. And, how about my health and money situation. I sure
hope things will improve for me. Thank you Helen from the bottom of my
heart. Signed, Lonely and Broke.
A:
Sweetie, I don't know who your common-law was, but
lonely or not. You are far better off with out him. He is a Jack of
Spades. Very scary. That is all I'll say. You are a good woman. Get out
there to show people you are available. People still think you are in
love with your last guy. Let them know you are ready to move on. You
should meet someone ( a good one ) by next year.
Your finances will remain about the same, so tell
your family to get their own money! Just say “Mommy needs her own”.
Your health will improve when you learn how to de-stress more. You are
in knots. If you bent, you would break. So your Mantra should be “ Let
go and let God”. Say this ten times a day, every day and in time you'll
believe it. Trying to be all things to all people has taken it's
toll on you and your health. If you make yourself number one on
your own list, you will see that things will start to improve. Take
Care and Relax!
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