October 3, 2007
Dear Helen,
This last year, has been like living in the fires of
Hell! Everything, has fallen apart professionally, financially and
especially personally. It has been very hard on my children. They say
that they are alright, but I'm not 100% sure.
Do you see any positive changes for us in the near
future, or are there still rough waters? Are my children really okay,
or are they trying to be strong for me? Did my husband really not cheat
before he left? And finally, will I ever find a guy who will be there
through the thick and thin? I am so tired of empty vows and promises!
Thank You Signed, One Wing In The Fire.
Oh, I'm so sorry everything is falling apart on you. There are still
difficult times ahead for you I'm afraid. However, my cards say you
will be victorious at the end of it all. Please do not make too many
decisions right now. Only deal with one problem at a time if you can.
Do nothing under pressure or through emotions. Try to think as clearly
as possible before you do or say anything.
My cards showed no infidelity on your husbands part
while sharing the marriage bed. He feels lost right now, and there is
more to his actions right now then just wanting out of the marriage. I
think he wants out of his life as it stands.
Your children are strong and very loving and
supportive. Please, do not worry about them. They are bright, secure,
and very strong. They will do fine as long as you do Mommy, so take
each day as it comes okay?
Right now, you need to focus on you and your
children. Decide what it is you want for the rest of your life and make
the necessary changes to make it happen. Someday, down the road a ways
you will meet a good, hard working dedicated man who will walk the rest
of the way with you. He will be your best friend, and a good friend to
the children. So, take heart. This time in your life will pass and you
will be the stronger ( and the happier ) for it.
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Dear Helen,
Glad to see you back! I was wondering if you see me
with any health problems in the near future? Do you see me going back
to work? Signed, Just Wondering.
Yes, I'm back for now. We will see what the new year brings. I've been
doing this column for free for the past nine years. I'm getting tired.
I'm not too worried about your psychical health at the present. I do
believe you have an existing condition that you will have to live with.
I also saw prescription drugs around you as well for this condition,
and you will be taking them for sometime. As far as work goes, I don't
think you will be at that same job. The card of change was in your
layout. So, either your employer will have to change your position, or
you will on your own. I think you should start looking into making an
income for yourself.
Dear Helen,
I am so happy you are back in the paper. I phoned
the editor and told them to put you back in. Also, I noticed that you
don't have your free monthly draw anymore at the bottom of your column.
Are you still going to offer a free monthly draw? I think that was so
nice of you to do that. I would love to win a reading with you. So if
you don't do it any more, will you please think about it again for
people like me who can not afford to come to you?
One more thing before I sign off. I have lost or
misplaced my Mother's locket. It has great sentimental value to me. I
have torn my entire house apart looking for it. Can you tell me if you
can see where it is. Thank you so much Helen. We love you here and need
you. I know there are a lot of people who feel the same way as I do.
Signed, Port Fan For Years.
Thanks for the praise. Glad you like the column. If anyone sends me
their telephone number along with their letter I still do a monthly
draw, I will add that to my sign off. As for your lost locket, I'm
sorry to say I do not feel it anywhere. Every time I tried to see it. I
kept seeing it in grass. I honest believe you lost it in a “park-like”
setting, and someone picked it up. Sorry.
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you next week, the good Lord willing.