September 5, 2007
Dear Helene,
I hope you can help me with a mess I’m in. The
problems is, I’m having an affair. It’s really not an affair
either. I just have sex with this guy. We don’t love each other. It’s
just sex. I really do love my boyfriend with all of my heart. My
bed mate, actually has a girlfriend and it doesn’t bother me at all. It
just comes down to the fact that we have incredible, wild sex together
Even he says it’s not the same with his
girlfriend as it is with me. I feel the same way too. I just don’t
understand it. I want a life with my boyfriend. I want to marry him and
have his children. I’ve dreamt about becoming his wife for the last two
and a half years. Ever since I met him that’s all I’ve wanted.
Do you think this is wrong of me? Do I need
help? Can you tell me if you see me getting caught. I’m so afraid
someone will find out. We go out of town, so no one knows about us. I
know this would kill my boyfriend if he ever finds out. Do you see us
getting married soon? When do you see it? Also, do you see if we will
have children and if so, how many? Will we be happy? I’m so confused
right now Helen and I hope you can help me out. Why am I so torn? Thank
you for your help. Signed, Torn.
Oh sweetie, you are not going to like what I have to
say, but here goes. As a mother of an only son, I must say, if I caught
you doing this to my son, I would crazy glue your legs so tightly
together, people would think you were a mermaid! What's wrong
with you girl? Unless you are a nymphomaniac (and I do not see
that being the case), don’t tell me you can’t get your priorities
straight and hormones under control. If you cannot then you are going
to have a big, big, problem!
Do not ask me questions about a future with this
poor man you are cheating on. How could you even consider
marriage at this point let alone children?
I will tell you this. Keep this up, and he
will find out. When he does, you won't need to wonder about a future
with him because there won't be one! So, I ask you this. If
you’re as happy as you profess to be, why then do you seek another mans
touch? Also, is a roll in the hay worth losing the man you say
you want spend the rest of your life with? Only you can decided.
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Hi Helen!
First, let me just say how much I love reading your
column each and every week. Things you’ve said to some of your letters
have made sense to me too. I just want you to know that you
are a very special lady and God has truly blessed you with a wonderful
gift of compassion and caring for others.
A co-worker of mine comes to you. She’s told
me things you’ve said during a reading and by golly she said that
you’ve been right on the money! I’m hoping you can see the out come of
a particular bad situation I’m in right now. I could really use your
advice on this and what you think the out come is going to be.
I’d just like to have your input on this. Thank You. Signed
Keeping my Fingers Crossed.
You have got to be kidding! I’m pretty good at
what I do for the most part, but a little more information would
have been nice. Like I’ve said before. I’m a card reader, not a
mind reader! I had to go with what I got on this one. The layout
I did for you featured the Ace, nine and ten of Spades. That means you
are going to be going through a difficult and troublesome time in the
near future and it means and ending.
I also saw legal problems ahead and I don’t
see things going in your favor. I saw a judgement against you will pay
out money. If this is what you wanted to know from your letter
then great! You’ve got your answer. If this wasn’t what you were
expecting . . . well then . . . surprise!
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